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Solve the sex enemy: numbness

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Because we can through some interesting method, to let each other more "unfaithful", thus far from "numb".Of those involved in sex, people should be free to enjoy, to revel the beauty in the world.Slowly enjoy it together with your lover!Many people think that the male sexual problem is ED (erectile dysfunction), or premature ejaculation.In fact, the men in the modern society and an increasingly common problem - sexual numb.Sex of what is produced numbness, how should solve?Until the 1980 s, between male sex sensitive topics will blush, many men walking in the street, he saw a beautiful women may be an erection.But now, in the male has such a phenomenon: with his beautiful girlfriend or wife do not have a feeling, sexual frequency greatly reduced, and these may has nothing to do with sexual ability, this is numb.Professor jiang said, sexual anesthesia include two aspects: one is physical numbness, should resort to the doctor.Another kind is refers to the social and cultural, the causes can be roughly divided into three kinds of situations:One is the excess supplyIt was 20 years ago, China is a common phenomenon of "supply" severe shortage of sex is objectively stem, imprison and denial, partly caused by the mystery of sex, so people is sensitive to abnormal sex.In recent years, social tolerance of make people the courage to pursue sex is more and more, increasing exchanges between men and women, even in a lot of young people, sex in discipline is very flabby.Sex in people's life became a common words, however, the result is a numbness.The second is psychological pressure caused by competitionWork and life pressure for some busy workers paid little attention to sexual life, sexual stimulation signal doesn't work for a long time, will damage the ability of a person's sexual."Job stress is a major maker of numbness, should attach importance to it."Professor jiang also stressed that in addition to the male, highly educated, high income and high position of the "three highs" women, because under more pressure than men, so it is easier to lead to numbness.Three is the "aesthetic fatigue" between spousesAlarming is that modern people's "aesthetic fatigue" getting up earlier and earlier period.According to the survey, marriage crisis is from "the seven year itch" to the "aesthetic fatigue" approximation after 3 years of marriage.3 years of marriage, with both sides of husband and wife to understand thoroughly, all aspects of the differences were apparent, novelty then is gone.Days become dull, sexual passion is becoming more and more light.Sex is the numbing enemy's sex lifeAbout the dangers of sexual numbness there are three main aspects: first, the impact bored couples sex life and beauty, for couples living on a cloud.Second, marital sexual numb once appear, will open a gap for extramarital love, sex of husband and wife of the lack of "cheating".Moreover, there are many data show that sex feel boring and tired of men, but sexual excitement to drop, until the cause of functional impotence.Should have the consciousness of "resistance"There are quite a few people think that "sex" life without sex skills improve, after a sexual numbness, more hope on improving the sexual skill to solve, this understandable.But, must be moderate.Should understand the true meaning of sex is affection, love, love to the strong sea wide.Instead, short love acerbity, skills again, also can get some kind of technical "orgasm", can't completely solve numbness.To avoid sex numb, there should be a "resistance" consciousness, to learn how to properly rejection and escape the temptations of the outside world, to reduce stress.Professor jiang stressed that overcoming numb without sincere affection.The connotation of "love" is very rich, lust is just one part of it.If the flesh as the basis of love is only, that is the "skin excessive Yin" jia baoyu said, in this case, the nature is to supply a more, numbness will soon follow.So the way out of the sexual numbness is "pioneering sex aesthetic space".Because, in terms of sex, technically pioneering sex space is very limited, and develop the emotional space is infinite.When husband and wife two people alone, can eat a candlelight dinner, still can go out for an outing, enjoy sex in a leisure way.In so doing, will receive unexpected results.





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