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Men and women to orgasm's time difference

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Although orgasm is the consummation of husband and wife sex life, it is every couple want to get the result, in every one-time life on an orgasm can't into the erroneous zone.Don't importune reach orgasm at the same timeHusband and wife orgasm at the same time of solid Is ideal, but don't have to put this expectation as a measure of success for sex.Generally men, intercourse for 3 to 5 minutes to appear, while women need 8 to 10 minutes, so men should extend as far as possible a routine sex, slowly entered the stage of intercourse, sexual intercourse after must control their physiological and psychological investment, so as to avoid himself very quickly to orgasm in refractory period.But even so, hope the two sides together to orgasm is not necessarily successful, but to some extent also don't have to be successful.Because women have the ability of continuous climax appears, the husband may appear in his wife after orgasm again into the refractory period, and is expected to make his wife more satisfied.Don't imitate the pursuit of the orgasm of others feelingsOrgasm feel the differ in thousands ways, that's just general or should the author thinks that condition, is not uniform.Especially there are some books on the painted orgasm a melody and reduction, which fascinate readers heart to.Some will deliberately seek.The reference clock, recite poems, for example, want to closely into the ideal realm.The result of this kind of practice, often disappointed and depressed.Because it is in the travel of the world, two people came to a third party beside bossing, destroyed two exclusive natural heavenly frame of mind, the peak experience orgasm will hidden-away east.Must understand that orgasm to experience influenced by every state of body and mind, never "one-size-fits-all", literary expression based on natural restricted by their sexual attitude, and artistic impulse.Can this parable, the process of combining, as husband and wife together climbing a peak, the peak belongs only to you two, with both sides of the creature and devotion to each other, to enjoy the beautiful scenery, enjoy anything just the two of you know, two people can communicate in my spare time, to enhance the love.Others may only gu jump to listen to, and is better to listen to less, so as not to disagree.Don't importune orgasm every timeOrgasm is not the sole purpose of sexual activity, rather than put it as a necessary outcome of sex, and regarded it as the boon conjugal love is better than windfall.Orgasm, it's very pleasure;No orgasm, and happy.So, no physical and mental burden in sex, objectively also are more likely to reach orgasm, is easier to control.Some couples is a lack of understanding that other people are having sex once per are "dying", "oneself should too, if you can't is not normal.Orgasm while not reach peak, but it is not stretched out his hand for a quick, particularly for women are more vulnerable to some psychological and physiological factors.Is the right attitude, fully enjoy and appreciate every process of husband and wife sex life, appreciate the two sides in the process of love, in the giving and receiving each other feel the warmth of sex.One or both parties have no orgasm, both parties should not have sigh of regret, desirable positive attitude is to encourage each other, don't lose hope or complains;So, even if there are no orgasm, so sex life will leave a good memory to both sides.




Men fight time 5.4 minutes on average for making love

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During sex, the male "strong" length directly affects the dignity of men.Especially now so open concept in sex "in the society, women had great expectations for this aspect.Many men think the premature ejaculation, actually can't see the length.Male in outpatient service, experts often meet some men think the premature ejaculation, but it's overdone, the normal mistaken for abnormal.In fact, the world men averaging 5.4 minutes, combat time also is whether it is premature ejaculation can't judge by length of time.If it is premature ejaculation, the expert consensus is behavior therapy with drug therapy, and some of the medical institution for the penile dorsal neurotomy of premature ejaculation, not only the effect is not exact, is more likely to lead to loss of sexual pleasure, numb, or even "waste", male experts do not recommend this.Premature ejaculation or not Can't see the length of timeFrom the perspective of the evolution of human sexual life time is extended.As mammals, tigers, leopards, for fear of attack, sexual life time is very short, but beg to achieve the purpose of reproduction.But now people pay more attention to sexual pleasure, and open concept, information developed, people demand higher about sex.Deng jun hong had some young men, that your sex life can only adhere to the five minutes is a sign of premature ejaculation, even some people think that half an hour can't be satisfied, "because when communicate with peers, the other two of his friends said to stick to an hour.""In fact, the definition of premature ejaculation is not so simple. If, in accordance with strict definition, so is every male premature ejaculation."Deng jun hong explained that if according to the definition of "to randomly control ejaculation", for example, only 10% can be achieved.Small in the movie the so fierce men actually does not see more.The truth is, the latest survey, from into the vagina to ejaculate, men of the world's average time was 5.4 minutes.He introduces, in general, the definition of primary premature ejaculation is the penis enter less than 1 minute or twitch less than 20 times ejaculation, because other ill effects caused by secondary premature ejaculation, definition is less than 3 minutes after entering the vagina or twitch 60 ~ 100 times less than the ejaculation.But he stressed that the current definition of premature ejaculation, to see the time has not completely to comprehensive ejaculation latency, adhere to the time, personal control of ejaculation time (if you can want to shoot when they shoot), psychological feelings (whether feel upset and frustrating), whether to affect relationship (e.g., lead to dissatisfaction with each other, the two sides split), and other factors to consider.Since the 5 questions in the assessment can help the patients.It is important to note that if the "end of combat" soon appeared only in certain cases, such as cheating, in unusual places, etc., also cannot be considered a premature ejaculation, for fear of being found mental subconsciously will "quick fix".The two sides cooperate with behavior therapy to treat premature ejaculationPenile dorsal neurotomy rise for 67 years, but as a male science branch of guangdong medical association vice chairman deng jun hong, haven't done for the patient.He said that for patients with premature ejaculation, foreign popular behavior therapy.Such as stop moving method: partner to help stimulate the penis, when patients have ejaculation impulses that beckoned to stop, after being impulsive disappeared again;Squeeze method: the patients before ejaculation, partner squash with the hand the glans penis.The above methods are usually need complete climax after three cycles.Another is masturbation again after first had sex, due to refractory period, ejaculation latency period will be extended, but will make the prostate hyperemia repeatedly, in a short time if add drink, fatigue and other factors, is easy to cause aseptic prostatitis."Behavioral therapy, however, need to partner cooperation, step by step, different from the Chinese and foreign culture, Chinese people like straight into the theme, young men may be more embarrassed to let partners to help themselves."Deng jun hong suggests, that is about to exercise myself more peaceful on mentality, such as practice calligraphy, tai chi, etc.Also advises couples both sides should properly understand the scientific knowledge, avoid misunderstanding will be normal for premature ejaculation, occasional premature ejaculation, the woman to help the man to eliminate fear and tension.





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